{"id":325,"date":"2025-05-08T15:37:52","date_gmt":"2025-05-08T19:37:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/?p=325"},"modified":"2026-03-31T11:16:54","modified_gmt":"2026-03-31T15:16:54","slug":"the-parable-of-the-ten-virgins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/?p=325","title":{"rendered":"The Parable of the Ten Virgins"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>&nbsp;<\/em>Text: Matthew 25:1\u201313<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mt 25:1 ESV \u201cThen the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. 2 Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. 3 For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them, 4 but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. 5 As the bridegroom was delayed, they all became drowsy and slept. 6 But at midnight there was a cry, \u2018Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.\u2019 7 Then all those virgins rose and trimmed (kosme? \u2013 root of cosmetic) their lamps. 8 And the foolish said to the wise, \u2018Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out (sbennymi \u2013 extinguished). 9 But the wise answered, saying, \u2018Since there will not be enough for us and for you, go rather to the dealers and buy for yourselves.\u2019 10 And while they were going to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast, and the door was shut. 11 Afterward the other virgins came also, saying, \u2018Lord, lord, open to us.\u2019 12 But he answered, \u2018Truly, I say to you, I do not know you.\u2019 13 Watch (gr?gore? \u2013 pay careful attention to \u2013 Also Rev. 3:2 to the church as Sardis \u2013 \u201cbe watchful\u201d) therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We are looking at a solemn text concerning the state of the church visible \u2013 hence the term \u201ckingdom of heaven\u201d which is used elsewhere. In fact, Matthew uses this term 32 times \u2013 in some cases it describes the future kingdom, but here it describes the church visible. In the future state there are no fools in heaven.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I could dwell on the potential eschatological (end times) implications, but I will not spend but a moment there. God\u2019s Word is calling for a singular return of Christ which I see evidenced here unlike doctrine of dispensationalists, and that is where I leave it today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The parable of the ten virgins is a mirror held up to the end-time church since we now live in the end times. The puritan pastor Thomas Shepard in 1600 felt the parable was so important, he preached four years on it, and the short sermon notes are found in his book \u201cThe Parable of the Ten Virgins\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>1. A Visible Church with an Invisible Reality<\/u><\/strong><strong><u><\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>\u201cThen shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins\u2026\u201d v1<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first words \u201cthen shall the kingdom be likened\u201d critically links chapter 25 back to chapter 24, so we need to understand the parable in context. In Chapter 24 of Matthew, the disciples asked a number of questions, one of which would be signs of the end. There are many indicators of end times which I will not concern myself with here. The first thing in chapter 24 Jesus says to His disciples is: \u201cTake heed that no man deceive you\u201d in verse 4. As the world grows old and the return of Christ draws nearer, deception will grow worse, and the deceivers will become more adept at their craft of deception \u2013 and the worst deception is the deception of one\u2019s self.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These ten virgins represent \u201cprofessing\u201d believers. Those in the parable are church people. Our own church is a microcosm of the kingdom of heaven. They show up every Sunday, sing the songs, raise their hands in \u201cworship\u201d, give to the work of church, they\u2019re cordial and nice to everyone. In that culture, a virgin\u2019s effort was very particular \u2013 actions, dress, activity, company they kept. They wanted to be pleasing both to the bridegroom and to their peers. They were not unconcerned about their lives. The people you want as next door neighbors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They all went forth to meet the bridegroom. All awaited His coming. All had lamps \u2013 symbols of their visible religion, of their professed desire to welcome the bridegroom. These were not people just \u201cplaying church\u201d \u2013 they were serious about their religion, yet you can\u2019t tell one from the other. They were not drunk, coarse or rude, scoffers \/ athiests, but they were \u201cvirgins\u201d \u2013 symbols of purity, separated from the world. And yet, <em>five were wise, and five were foolish.<\/em> This is Christ\u2019s division \u2013 not man\u2019s. What was the difference?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>The wise took oil with them<\/u><\/strong> \u2013 the foolish did not. V3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Clearly the \u201clamp\u201d represents \u201cChristian profession\u201d; the \u201coil\u201d, possession of an internal change \/ salvation. One is outward; the other, inward just like the \u201ccall of God\u201d \u2013 one is external (preaching, etc.) and the other is internal (from the Holy Spirit). The foolish had no oil \u2013 no true grace, no Spirit of God, no abiding life within. I cannot see your oil, but God does. Make certain you are not deceived &#8211; that you think you have oil &#8211; when you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those with no \u201coil\u201d had religion but not regeneration \/ no new birth. Activity without anointing. Doctrine without deliverance. Church attendance, but no change of heart. They looked the part. If you saw them at church, you wouldn\u2019t know the difference between those virgins. They all looked good and righteous. But God knew. And midnight revealed it. Consider that Judas Iscariot was a \u201creligious\u201d person according to scripture. Let\u2019s look at Judas for a moment:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>In Matthew 10, Jesus sends out His disciples. All of His disciples. Including Judas Iscariot. What is stunning is what was not mentioned in scripture. No doubt Judas had great spiritual gifts, for he was a preacher of the gospel in Matthew 10, sent out from Christ &#8211; and our Lord Jesus Christ would not have put him to work and not prepare him for that work &#8211; yet we know &#8220;Judas is gone to his own place&#8221;. Judas was sent out with the others to preach the Gospel saying the \u201ckingdom of heaven is at hand\u201d. Healed the sick. Cleansed the lepers. Cast out devils. Raised the dead. Yes \u2013 Judas Iscariot was indistinguishable from the others in his profession and his actions \u2013 even in the success of his works. If Judas miscarried in his efforts, scripture would have called it out, but it doesn\u2019t. He was in with the rest of the disciples and active.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Judas was so good at is act that in John 13:25, John the disciple asked Jesus who the betrayer was \u2013 and even after Jesus giving the clue of the sop in the dish, yet John didn\u2019t understand. When Jesus told Iscariot to do what he had to do quickly, it says \u201cno man at the table knew\u201d (John 13:28). Judas was so similar to the others, he fit in without question.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Man may go to great lengths to deceive others even as well as himself, yet &#8211; be as much a child of hell as Judas Iscariot; that is what we see in churches everywhere.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>You are not saved by proximity. You are not saved by your works. Being part of the ten virgins (the complete visible body of Christ), does not mean being redeemed. Jesus said, <em>\u201cNot everyone that saith unto Me, Lord, Lord, shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he that doeth the will of My Father.\u201d (Mt. 7:21).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Also as a note: the Bible says that the gate is narrow and few find it. Eight were saved in the ark. Three were saved from Sodom. Two entered the Promised Land. The original seventy disciples sent by Christ were reduced to 12 as the rest \u201cwalked with Him no more\u201d John 6:66.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><u>**A Note on the Number TEN as a number of completion in Scripture if time permits \u2013 just a quick mention:<\/u><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>The Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:1-17, Deuteronomy 5:6-21) Given by God to Moses, they form the complete moral law for Israel.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Ten Plagues of Egypt (Exodus 7-12) The full judgment of God on Pharaoh and Egypt, leading to Israel\u2019s release.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Ten Virgins (Matthew 25:1-13) A parable illustrating the completion of preparation for Christ\u2019s return\u2014five wise, five foolish.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Tithe (Genesis 14:20, Malachi 3:10) A tenth of income given to God, symbolizing complete financial dedication.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Ten Generations from Adam to Noah (Genesis 5) Represents the completion of an era, leading to judgment through the Flood.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Ten Generations from Shem to Abraham (Genesis 11:10-26) Marks the transition from Noah to the covenant with Abraham.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Ten Days of Testing (Daniel 1:12-15, Revelation 2:10) Daniel and his friends were tested for ten days with a strict diet\u2014proving God&#8217;s faithfulness.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Church of Smyrna in Revelation faced ten days of persecution, symbolizing a complete trial.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Ten Toes of Nebuchadnezzar\u2019s Statue (Daniel 2:41-42) Symbolic of the completion of world kingdoms before Christ\u2019s ultimate reign.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Ten Horns on the Beast (Daniel 7:7, Revelation 13:1, Revelation 17:12) Represents complete political power of end-time rulers before God&#8217;s final judgment.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Ten Lepers Healed (Luke 17:11-19) A full representation of God\u2019s grace and healing, though only one showed gratitude.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>2. Delay Tests the Soul<\/u><\/strong><strong><u> &nbsp;<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>\u201cWhile the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept.\u201d V5<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Delay \u2013 the long period of waiting. The Lord is not asleep or forgetful but has decreed the beginning from the end, and does not lack mercy. <em>\u201cThe Lord is not slack concerning His promise&#8230; but is longsuffering to us-ward.\u201d<\/em> (2 Peter 3:9).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When delay comes, we see the test. When the darkness of midnight arrives, we see more clearly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>They all slumbered and slept.<\/em> Both wise and foolish. Even the most watchful saints know seasons of spiritual dullness. But note this: the wise had oil before they slept. Their prepa ration preceded the delay. Here is a truth: <strong>a sudden return will not permit sudden preparation<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When the call is made and the trumpet sounds, the time for buying oil is past. Distractions are over. Time has run out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>3. The Midnight Cry &#8211; Final Separation<\/u><\/strong><strong><u> &nbsp;<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>\u201cAnd at midnight there was a cry made, Behold, the bridegroom cometh!\u201d v6<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Midnight \u2013 the darkest and least expected hour. As with the Parable of the Midnight Friend, the occurrence here is midnight when it is darkest and man is least prepared. This is the sudden return of Christ. <em>\u201cAs lightning cometh out of the east\u2026 so shall the coming of the Son of Man be.\u201d Mt 24:27.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All ten virgins rise. All ten trim their lamps as they are all still careful and attending to their duty. But then the crisis: the foolish cry, <em>\u201cOur lamps are gone out!\u201d v8. <\/em>They don\u2019t ask for light. They ask for oil. They had the appearance, but no substance. Now, in panic, they beg from the wise. Reality hits them that they lack what is necessary. They see clearly that their schemes and mechanizations don\u2019t hold.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But grace is not transferable. You cannot rely on your parents\u2019 salvation, your pastor\u2019s prayers, your own church membership.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The wise say, <em>\u201cNot so\u2026 go and buy.\u201d<\/em> v9.&nbsp; There is a right time for salvation \u2013 and it is now. 2 Corinthians 6:2b \u201cbehold, now is the day of salvation.\u201d Not later. Not tomorrow. Giving attention to the necessary at an hour that\u2019s too late, buying too late, praying too late, repenting too late \u2013 the bridegroom came and many were unprepared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>4. The Shut Door <\/u><\/strong><strong><u>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>\u201cAnd the door was shut.\u201d v10<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finality. Fearfulness. Isaiah 33:14 \u201cThe sinners in Zion are afraid; fearfulness hath surprised the hypocrites.\u201d The door of salvation was closed for those living to see that day. How many have had the door of mortal life closed, and were yet unprepared?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is the very door of salvation, of heaven, of life eternal. And it is shut by the hand of the King. You cannot reopen it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The foolish return. They cry with intensity, <em>\u201cLord, Lord!\u201d<\/em> \u2013 the same cry as in Matthew 7. They do not deny Him. They do not curse Him. They <strong>plead<\/strong> with Him. But He says, <em>\u201cI know you not.\u201d <\/em>Same as these verses: Luke 13:24-27 \u201cStrive to enter in at the strait gate: for many, I say unto you, will seek to enter in, and shall not be able. When once the master of the house is risen up, and hath shut to the door, and ye begin to stand without, and to knock at the door, saying, Lord, Lord, open unto us; and he shall answer and say unto you, I know you not whence ye are: Then shall ye begin to say, We have eaten and drunk in thy presence, and thou hast taught in our streets. But he shall say, I tell you, I know you not whence ye are; depart from me, all ye workers of iniquity.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He doesn\u2019t say, <em>\u201cI knew you once and you fell.\u201d<\/em> He says, <em>\u201cI <u>never<\/u> knew you.\u201d<\/em> They were never His. They were near the church, but far from Christ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&nbsp;\u201cThe door was shut.\u201d<\/em> That door, once closed, cannot be opened by man or angel &#8211; it has been closed by the hand of God as He has a determined day \/ hour \/ limit of judgment until He acts. John 7:6 \u2013 \u201cThen Jesus said unto them, My time is not yet come: but your time is alway ready.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Genesis 15 details a conversation between Christ and Abraham regarding the promises where Abraham believed God and it was imputed to him for righteousness. We also see in Genesis 15:16 where Christ makes an interesting comment not possessing the land until the iniquity of the Amorites not being full. Now contrast this against Romans 9:23, where God is patiently waiting for the vessels of wrath to be filled to capacity. Daniel 8:23 states \u201cAnd in the latter time of their kingdom, when the transgressors are come to the full\u201d. Matthew 23:31-33 \u201dFill ye up then the measure of your fathers\u201d. , 1 Thessalonians 2:16 \u201cto fill up their sins\u201d . There is a measured amount that only God knows, where His extreme patience has been exhausted and judgment begins on those souls prepared for wrath.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In our present \u201ckingdom of heaven, we cannot see as God does. There can be relationships, allegiances, commitments that are not of God \u2013 yet go to fill up that measure mentioned in scripture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>4a. What Else? Depending on something other than Christ<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many cry, \u201cPeace, peace,\u201d but they don\u2019t want the peace that passes all understanding. They only want a worldly peace. They want \u201cJesus\u201d, but not His cross. They want \u201cthe kingdom\u201d, but not the King\u2019s Law and Decrees. They want heaven, but they want to get there on the world\u2019s method. A promise of a false religion will not gain heaven.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are the foolish virgins \u2014 outwardly waiting, inwardly spiritually blind and wandering.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They have made a treaty with the Gods of Egypt. They are still in secret love with their idols. Secret loyalties polluting them. False friends, forbidden unions and oaths, and fleshly indulgences are the alliances they think are hidden \u2014 but they will be brought to light when the cry is made, \u201cBehold, the Bridegroom cometh!\u201d v6<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>If you are a friend of the world, you are at war with Christ.<\/em> <em>&#8220;Whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.&#8221;<\/em> \u2014 <em>James 4:4<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>4b. What Else? Spiritual Adultery: They have Two Loves<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The foolish virgins say, \u201cLord, Lord,\u201d but their hearts are divided. Their affection is not singular. They would have Christ \u2014 but also keep their favorite sin. They would walk with God \u2014 but also dine with devils. They would serve the Lord \u2014 but keep an idol on the shelf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Lord will not have a double-minded bride.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Elijah cried out on Mt. Carmel &#8220;How long halt ye between two opinions? if the LORD be God, follow him: but if Baal, then follow him.&#8221;<\/em> \u2014 <em>1 Kings 18:21. The crowd was silent, as they knew this was the moment of truth for them. They were uncommitted to God.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Their spiritual adultery shows itself in their associations \u2014 those who love their secret things more than the Lord\u2019s house; those who entertain the world while professing to love the Bridegroom. Spiritual adultery brings spiritual death.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To be very clear: <em>the Bridegroom is coming for a pure virgin<\/em> \u2014 one not only clothed in His righteousness, but also loosed from sins of this age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oil in the lamp is the work of the Spirit \u2014 not merely light, but life. Not merely form, but true fire. Not strange fire like Nadab and Abihu offered &#8211; and were destroyed for in Numbers 26:61.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>4c. What Else? The Cry at Midnight Will Expose All Hidden Associations<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When the cry calls out \u2014 <em>\u201cBehold, the Bridegroom cometh!\u201d<\/em> \u2014 it is too late to break your alliances. The soul that spent its effort in worldly secret places will not make the marriage feast.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The foolish virgins will knock in desperation, but the door is shut. Why? Because the Bridegroom <em>never knew them<\/em>. Their outward show of religion was betrayed by inward alliances with falsehood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let every man examine his heart. What oaths are binding on you? What ropes of association draw your soul toward the gates of Sodom? What secrets, what unspoken allegiance, blindfolded vows, what hidden desire has placed itself between you and the Lord?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cIf I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>Psalm 66:18<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>4d. Come Out and Be Separate<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.&#8221;<\/em> \u2014 <em>2 Corinthians 6:17<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the call to the wise virgins \u2014 to be free from any and all rival allegiances. To renounce the hidden works of darkness. To forsake unclean fellowships and uneven yokes of darkness. Now is the day to stand openly, wholly, visibly with Christ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The person who would have the Bridegroom feast must forsake the world\u2019s banquet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>5. The Call to Watchfulness and Readiness<\/u><\/strong><strong><u>&nbsp;<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><u>\u201cWatch therefore, for ye know neither the day nor the hour\u2026\u201d v13<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is Christ\u2019s conclusion. Not to speculate on dates. Not to sleep because of delay. But to <em>watch<\/em>. To watch is to live ready. To watch is to keep your vessel full. Be ye filled with the Holy Spirit as we discussed in the Parable of the Midnight Friend. To watch is to abide in Christ, to confess sin quickly, to walk in the Spirit, to keep oil in your lamp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Be prepared for the midnight cry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Revelation 3:1-3 &nbsp;\u201cAnd unto the angel of the church in Sardis write; These things saith he that hath the seven Spirits of God, and the seven stars; I know thy works, that thou hast a name that thou livest, and art dead. Be watchful, and strengthen the things which remain, that are ready to die: for I have not found thy works perfect before God. Remember therefore how thou hast received and heard, and hold fast, and repent. If therefore thou shalt not watch, I will come on thee as a thief, and thou shalt not know what hour I will come upon thee.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Bridegroom cometh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;Text: Matthew 25:1\u201313 Mt 25:1 ESV \u201cThen the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. 2 Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. 3 For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them, 4 but the wise took &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/?p=325\" class=\"more-link\">Read more<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;The Parable of the Ten Virgins&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-325","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/325","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=325"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/325\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":326,"href":"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/325\/revisions\/326"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=325"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=325"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.habersack.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=325"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}